“Just whistle while you work Put on that grin and start right in to whistle loud and long Just hum a merry tune Just do your best and then take a rest and sing yourself a song When there’s too much to do Don’t let it bother you, forget your troubles Try to be just like a cheerful chick-a-dee And whistle while you work . . .” Source:  Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs She is singing along to a song being played as background music at the restaurant in Orange Beach, Alabama where we … [Read more...]


“You cannot change what you refuse to confront.”  (Source unknown) “Rob!” shouts Larry, jolting my mind out of deep thoughts during an ongoing conversation in which I am not engaged.  Unfortunately, the only word I hear is the last one – my name – which my son-in-law has purposely spoken louder to get my attention. (He’s probably a little upset at being seemingly ignored). Has this ever happened to you? Perhaps you have been the person not being heard. If so, you know how Larry … [Read more...]

Bowline Knot

“The experience of being understood, versus interpreted, is so compelling, you can charge admission.”   B. Joseph Pine, II, The Experience Economy Ask any boating enthusiast to list the top marine knots they use and most will include the bowline knot.  Why do boaters like this knot?  As someone who has great passion for boating and fishing, and who often finds a way to be on the water, I can give three reasons: The bowline knot is simple to tie, absolutely will hold under a heavy load, and … [Read more...]


“Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny.”                                                                                                                     Ralph Waldo Emerson What do you do every single day? What tasks, throughout your life, seem to command more frequency? If you are like most of the ‘electronic people’ of this modern world, you probably check your email multiple … [Read more...]


“A man’s got to know his limitations.” (Source: Magnum Force, spoken by Clint Eastwood as Harry Callahan) I am not going to win any kind of Olympic contest during my life time. Age and capability are concrete evidence at this juncture. Does this prove to those radical, positive-thinking gurus (of which I have been accused) that you can’t do everything? There are limitations. There is a thing called reality. “Face the brutal facts!” advises Jim Collins in his book, Good to Great.  Not … [Read more...]

The Breakfast

“The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance. “ Brian Tracy In a phone conversation, he asks if I would be willing to share a few words at an upcoming breakfast. He is Marty O’Malley, Financial Life Leader and Director of L’Arche Mobile, a non-profit organization that is a favorite of Carol’s, my wife, and mine. Involved with this group a long time, we have contributed financially and with many volunteer hours. Our participation evolves over … [Read more...]

Broken Glass

“There is no value in life except what you choose to place upon it and no happiness in any place except what you bring to it yourself.”     Henry David Thoreau It’s not the first time for my sisters and me. The shattering sound confirms that the drink container that was in my hand seconds earlier is now in many pieces on the hardwood floor. My first reaction to the mishap is disbelief – surely it had not occurred. How could I be so clumsy? My second reaction is to apologize, of course, but … [Read more...]

A Few Keystrokes

“You never know when a moment and a few sincere words can have an impact on a life” Zig Ziglar Another birthday has come and gone. For a number of years, I have been telling my kids to not give me any more presents. I suggest they buy something special for their families, or donate time or money to one of my favorite charities. They accept and honor my request.  In this transition, I discover something I still need, which my two daughters (and eight grandchildren) can offer. The difference it … [Read more...]


“Think left and think right and think low and think high. Oh, the thinks you can think up if only you try!” Oh, the Thinks You Can Think! Dr. Theodor Seuss The theme for our meeting today at Toastmasters is ‘old-fashioned fun.’ The facilitator provides the questions for our topic and selects different members to share their answers. It’s a great session, soon evolving into a focus on old games enjoyed during childhood. When Hopscotch is mentioned, I am immediately transported back into my … [Read more...]

Being Connected

“The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival.” Aristotle (384-322BC) “Being aware is more important than being smart.” This is a quote from the book, Sacred Hoops: Spiritual Lessons of a Hardwood Warrior, written by Phil Jackson, NBA All-American and former head coach of the Chicago Bulls. Phil Jackson had the privilege of coaching one of, if not the greatest of players in NBA history – Michael Jordan. He knew that Michael … [Read more...]